It's one thing to drift apart, and another to take off running in the other direction

I remember seeing our engagement pictures posted on our photographers blog and tearing up. My heart raced, I got a little shaky, and a silly smile spread across my face. There we were, in love, for the world to see!

Today I’m looking at engagement photos also on our photographers blog and again am tearing up. My heart is racing, and I’m shaky.

No smiles.

I’ve seen several old friends appear unexpectedly on their blog before, as well as a couple of new friends. My high school crush was there one day looking very James Dean with his high school sweetheart. The prom king and queen, almost a decade later, finally tying the knot. I was always happy to see my friends on Last Forty Percent’s blog, knowing they made a fantastic choice and would have beautiful photographs to treasure just as we do.

I knew that this most recent couple was getting married. 10 days from now, actually. I don’t know him, but I know her. Or at least I thought I did.

She was my Best Friend – you know, the friend you share your dreams and have adventures with. We made gingerbread houses in her kitchen and played board games and pinball in her basement (There was a pinball machine! In her basement!). We practiced music together, she playing viola to my cello, along with the violins of several other friends. We went to the local fair every year in a group and bought bracelets allowing us to go on the Gravatar until we were sick. We nervously started high school together, expanding our circle of friends while at the same time remaining close. Our commitment to music took us to Europe, where we travelled through Switzerland and Italy with our high school choir. We started growing up, standing on a dark sidewalk after a party bravely taking slurps of  Cherry Coke laced with whiskey.

Maybe it was here where things started to go awry. In truth, I’ve never figured it out, and perhaps I’ll never know. All I do know is that one day I arrived at school, approached her at her locker to greet her, and was met with a blank stare.

From that day forward, I didn’t exist to her.

If she had to speak to me, her words were terse and short. If she had to be near me, she turned her back and stared into space. I spent days – weeks – months – years! trying to figure out what I might have done that would make her no longer want to spend so much as a moment with me. Her own brother, whom I count as a friend, asked me what happened between us. I told him I wish I had an answer. Oh, how I wish! I have no answers. Only questions.

Perhaps I wasn’t cool enough. I’ll be the first to admit, I was really awkward as a teen. Maybe I did something seemingly horrible to her, or said the wrong thing. My brain-to-mouth filter is not always on. Maybe I didn’t pay enough attention to her, or was making the wrong friends. Maybe this, maybe that. I’m maybe-ed out. I need to stop myself before I get into the what-ifs, but I’m leaving this post with one what-if:

What if she reads this? It’s possible she is.

Will she reach out?

Please do.

It’s been 10 years. What I wouldn’t do for closure.

Boyfriends and the Internets.

Dear common-law partner boyfriend of mine,

First things first, I love you. I really, really do!

But I have some things to explain to you. Specifically, the part of my life that I call the internets and you call DANGER.

In a way, I don’t blame you and I can understand where you are coming from. And I do feel that in the past few months it has gotten a little out of hand. That is why, for you AND me, I have privatized my Twitter (permanently, this time) and reduced the number of people I follow by a lot. Hundreds, even. (Sorry to all of you. You are all wonderful people, but, as I said, I was just getting out of hand).

One thing that is NOT going to change is the friends that I have made because of my blog and because of Twitter. I have met some great people and they have become my friends in this new city of mine. And you know what? I am not going to stop hanging out with them because it scares you. People meet online all the time. People meet their spouses online, probably on a daily basis! (You know that because we often watch those happy eHarmony commercials together.)

I do not hide these bloggy-friends from you, nor do I place myself in situations that could be potentially harmful. But my new friends are wonderful! They are funny, like-minded, single, not single, happy, and sometimes not happy, employed (and sometimes briefly unemployed), kind, and most importantly, REAL people who have become an integral part of my social network in Calgary.

I’m not replacing you, or Natalie, or the used-to-be-distant relatives that I can now call my friends. I need these people as an addition to my social network. I am a social being! I love talking (usually really fast), dancing, getting advice from, teasing and just hanging out with these people (WHO ARE REAL). I need to have someone I can call if I don’t want to be alone on a Friday night when you are working. I like talking to them about relationships, dancing, clothes, gossip, the meaning of life, knowing how to be happy, and ZOMG YOU! I talk to them about you! And way-more-things-than-that-but-I-can’t-specify-because-Hi, Mom!

So please, accept these friendships as a permanent part of my life. Encourage me to continue to go out of my comfort zone and meet new people. Do it because you love me, and because your job forced me to move to this great city where I want to be happy and fulfilled. (Just kidding about the forced; I made an informed, adult decision which I am very happy about.)

In closing, I love you (even your monkey legs and your pterodactyl alter ego) and probably will for the rest of my life.

Leah.

P.S. Maybe it wouldn’t hurt you to try and do the same?

Do you have any “rules” you abide by when meeting people off the internets to ward off potentially dangerous situation?

Do you have any advice for Mr. Leah to satisfy his (reasonable) wish for me to be safe?

Saying Forever-Goodbyes

Yesterday Tim was talking about work, more specifically, his friend Jay. Jay had recently been transferred to a different city for two months, and was at work packing up and saying goodbye. He looked at me really weirded out and told me that another employee was having her final shift the same day. “Jay said goodbye to her forever. They said goodbye to each other knowing that they would never see each other ever again.” This really boggled Tim’s mind. He was amazed, and confused, and kind of sad for Jay and this coworker. I looked at Tim like “so what?” To me, saying goodbye to someone forever doesn’t really mean much, I should say, doesn’t faze me. I thought of the countless times I have met people, gotten close with them and subsequently said goodbye to them, forever. This would have happened when I was living in Quebec for a summer, then when I was working at a fishing lodge in Northern Ontario for a summer, and when I spent a month working and traveling in Costa Rica. This happened when I spent a week volunteering in Calgary a few years ago, and when we had a girl living with us from Russia for four summers. All of the people I met during these experiences impacted my life greatly, and because of these people, I am who I am today. I thank them for it, and owe so much to them for teaching me, for encouraging me, for pushing me to grow and for being in the awesome place I am in today. It occurred to me, that Tim hasn’t done a lot of stuff like this. He likes to stay in his comfort zone and keep his bubble of life as small and tight as possible. That, 99% of the time when he says goodbye to people it is a goodbye for a week, goodbye for a day, goodbye until the next time we run into each other.

I think I’ve gotten really good at goodbye forever, in a positive way. I can say goodbye to somebody, forever, without crying and being sad and still hold them in my heart and think about them often. What about you? Have your life experiences taught you say forever-goodbyes to people you know really well? Are you any good at them? Do you stink at them? Do you do them often? Am I a freak of nature with no heart or maybe just a thick-skinned social worker?

My Life in Photos

It takes awhile, but it’s worth it. Try your very best to find all of the pictures asked for… use facebook or the pictures stored on your computer. If you can’t find one, that’s okay, but leave all questions in the survey for others to find. Tag the people in your photos, and anyone you think may be interested in completing this. :)

1. A picture of you in your room.


Katelyn took this when her and I used to share a bed for a few months.

2. A picture of you posing with someone you don’t actually like.


la la la…

3. A picture with a former crush


He was friends with my friend Amanda and I met him on campus with her and thought he was awesome, and basically arranged it so that we became best friends, by telling him that I wanted to be his best friend. We went from not knowing each other to being best friends, and it worked out very well as you can see here! He had a long term girlfriend so our friendship never progressed past the proposal on the dance floor.

4. A picture of you very drunk.


We weren’t actually kissing, just opening our mouths really close to one another.

5. . A picture of you with a parent or two.


My and my momma dancing, years and years ago.

6. A picture of you on your birthday.


You can always tell the birthday girl because she’s the one with the horribly riding up shirt, and wearing a hat. You can always tell the boyfriend of the bday girl because he’s the one who was forced to drink right along with her and is probably off biting someone’s ear.

7. The youngest picture you can find of yourself in digital form.

8. A picture of you in one of your favorite outfits.


Lately I’m very into colourful dresses that have regular, thick straps.

9. A picture of you making a goofy face at the camera

mic funny face

10. A picture you miiiiiight have edited to make yourself more attractive.


Morning after Kate’s stag and doe… nuff said!

11. A picture of you and a team or club you’re in.


Katelyn and I making funny faces with our Brownies last year.

12. A picture of you showing off a new haircut (even if it’s an old haircut now)


I don’t know really if it was new! But I imagine we got our hair cut for family pictures.

13. A picture of you truly being yourself.


I’m a true Dutch girl.

14. The most recent picture of you.


This was taken last weekend at Erica’s bachelorette.

15. . A picture of you being absolutely ridiculous.


Shaving my legs for a talent show.

16. A photo that you are tagged in that you aren’t actually in.


Our friend Laura’s wedding.

17. A picture of a time in your life that’s over, but you wish it wasn’t.


Snowboarding with Leah in the mountains in February!


18. A picture of a time in your life that’s over, and you couldn’t be more thankful that it is


I do NOT miss climbing up a skinny hydro pole like structure (but much higher!) standing on a tiny plank, then jumping off into thin air at a camp last summer.

19. A picture with your oldest friend.


Michelle and I – best friends since grade one.

21. A picture of you when you were anything but happy, even if you were smiling and did your best to hide it.


Tequila shot on my last birthday. Tequila is NOT my friend.

22. A picture of you that you had no idea was being taken.


In class with all my teachers college friends last month. I’m in the green.

23. A picture of you when you were a different person than you are now.


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This was Erica’s halloween costume when she was a kid, and I loved wearing it for Halloween a few years back.

24. A picture of you in a fashion “DON’T”.

(No offense mom! I’m sure it was cool at the time!)

25. A picture of you in a swimsuit – whether you love it or loathe it.

(love it)

26. A picture of you taking a shot / chugging a beer / downing some sort of mixed drink.



Not chugging.. just sipping.

27. A picture of yourself that you hate.

28. A picture of you with someone you love.

29. A picture of how you’d like the world to see you.

30. A picture that describes how you’d like to spend every day.


This was a perfect snowboarding day.

31. A picture of a time when everything was changing.

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The day we got engaged! (The pics are stuck together.) Can you tell the ring was a few sizes too big?

32. A picture that makes your heart hurt.

Our Opa passed away about ten years ago and we still miss him. And how cute are Erica and I, thinking that we’re being helpful, and the fact that I’m doing barn work in my little dress!

33. A picture that makes your heart smile.


Basically any pictures from when we were little make my heart smile.

34. . A picture of one of the best nights or days of your life.

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Take a guess!

Micaela, Kent, Matt, and Laura take on Calgary.

As you will know if you’ve been paying attention, Kent and I just got back from a ten day vacation to visit Leah and Tim in Calgary. We were joined by our friends Matt and Laura, and had a fabulous time. Here’s some photographic evidence of that:

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We spent the first half of the trip searching out a Tim Hortons – any good Canadian will recognize it in this picture! We are addicts.

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Matt, Laura, Leah, me, and Kent out for some spicy Thai food in Banff.

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Our hotel had a couple of sweet hot tubs that dyed that bathing suit a strange tan colour. I don’t even want to think about what the chemicals did to my skin.

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The group at the top of Lake Louise.

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It was so nice out that we ate lunch outside and did a little suntanning.

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Anyone who’s been to Lake Louise will recognize this infamous photo op.

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Our last day on the slopes was spent at Sunshine.

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Our boys spent a lot of time cooking for us.

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And we all spent a lot of time drinking wine.

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The last couple days were spent meeting up with a LOT of family – here is the group with our cousin Chris and our friend Natalie!

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Our Aunt gave me and Leah the coolest spices ever that she got from India.

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Our lovely hosts.

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Leah was so sad to see us go that she started to act a little strangely…

All in all it was a great trip and I would travel with these travel buddies anytime.

All of my credit and appreciation goes to Laura for the photos and for being the official photographer of the trip.

Bus Strike Adventures

OC Transpo Bus

OC Transpo Bus

For the past week (and before the Christmas break), I’ve had to find different ways of getting to school almost every day because there are no buses running.  Wednesdays I have no class, but I had to be at school to help recruit for cheerleading, so I was going to walk the hour to school, then someone recommended to me that I should take the shuttles (Carleton has school buses running from different parts of the city every half hour to help students get to their classes).  The closest shuttle stop from me is a half hour walk at our nearest shopping center/O-train stop, so I got bundled up, and left at about 3:45, since I had to be at school for 5, and figured that would give me enough time.  I got to the stop at about 4:20, and noticed a sign on the times board saying “Due to the weather, the shuttles will not be running today”.  There I was, boots on, with slippers underneath, down filled mitts, tights, yoga pants, a short sleeved shirt, a long sleeved shirt, a sweater, a down coat, and BOTH hoods on (I later got made fun of when I mentioned that I took off my hoodS.).  In other words, I was totally bundled up, and totally pissed that I walked half an hour to a bus stop where no buses would be coming.

After I got over my initial shock, and about 5 minutes of trying to call a cab (obviously busy every time I called, because how else would people get around these days?), I walked to the nearest Second Cup and called a teammate to come pick me up and bring me to school.  On our way to school I find out that they had changed the recruiting times from 5-7 to 4-6.  It was now 5:20.  So I get to school, take off my layers (and my hoods), and starting trying to recruit people.  Now has anyone ever had to attempt to recruit university aged guys to try out for a cheerleading team? NOT fun, let me tell you that.  Pretty much our approach is “if you think the guy is hot and jacked, go hand him a flier and chat him up”.  I’m clearly not very good at this.  I attempted to recruit for about 20 minutes, then a group of us decided it would be better if we’d just go to the residence and try to force people to try out hand them out there.  Well.  In order to get to the tunnels (do you really think we would walk outside?), we had to walk past one of the campus bars.  Now you should know that one of our favorite sayings is “Our drinking team has a cheerleading problem”, and we do live up to that saying.  We decided it would be easier for us to talk to people if we had a beer in us.  Well one beer turned into two, and two into three, and next thing you know we’ve forgotten all about handing out fliers, and were now talking about siblings having the same tongues, and things only the fiveblondes would understand like “touch tongues!”, and living on farms/ranches, since the group I was there with consisted of two sisters from Texas-Kelly and Kristina, and one guy who works on a farm-Matt (did I mention that he also is from a family of five siblings?  Only one sister though).  Kristina, by the way is my twin.  If you are looking at pictures from my cheerleading you’d better look twice to make sure that it’s actually me, because we have to do the same thing.  We were then talking about staying for trivia night, when I got a call that Krys was waiting for me outside res commons-almost all the way across campus.  So I grab my coat, say my goodbyes and run across campus…only to be met by a chihuahua in Krys’ truck!  Now I assure you, I wasn’t drunk enough to be seeing things…okay well maybe I was, but there was honestly a chihuahua in the truck.  I’ve never seen one up close, and Radar is enough to turn me off of them.  No offense to anyone who has one, but chihuahuas are creepy looking dogs in my opinion.  It turns out that this lovely dog is staying at my house for a couple of days while Krys’ sister visits us from Montreal.  I’ll let you all know how this goes.

I had totally forgotten that we (me, Emily and Krys) had planned a Monopoly date with Krys’ friend Dan and his girlfriend Felicia.  Monopoly is a touchy subject in our house.  We usually end the game in a big fight, and a win for Krys.  This time was different though.  This time I won!  It was a crazy game, and I didn’t quite understand how I won, but I’m not going to fight it, I’m going to take that win and be happy that I’m the one who broke Krys’ winning streak.  Oh yea, he also wins EVERY single  game we play, including Risk, Clue, and Whoonu.

Anyways, that was my wonderful adventure with the OC Transpo strike.  I was only planning on making it about my adventure getting to school for the recruitments, but I tend to ramble when I’m bored, and have 5 hour breaks in my schedule, which I do every Monday, Tuesday and Thursday.

Taking the party down a notch.

As I mentioned in our Years in Review post, one of my resolutions was to find cheap/free fun things to do in Calgary. This has many purposes – to help out my bank account a little, to get away from the partying lifestyle that has been the last five years of my life and to have more purely fun experiences that help me to get to know the entirety of my city better, and not just what pubs are good (Joyce on Fourth) and what bar to go Wednesday after work that has the most cute guys (ahem, the Metropolitan Grill on Eighth ave).

Here is what has been brainstormed so far:

  • Go to/rent movies (this may seem like a giveaway, but honestly I don’t go see many movies or rent many either)
  • Go for a walk with my best friend twice a week (Calgary has beautiful walking trails downtown along the river)
  • Tea parties
  • Glenbow Museum (and if this is enjoyable, others as well)
  • Go up the Calgary Tower, both during the day and at night
  • Go to the mountains (Banff – Erica lived there for one winter!, Canmore, etc.)
  • Go showshoeing or cross country skiing (you can rent equipment in Kananaskis for a low price)
  • Visit Bragg Creek
  • Board game nights (Settlers of Catan is hands down my fave, but I need more awesome TWO PLAYER games)
  • Visit my best friends sister and brother in law for free meals and to fawn over their newborn
  • Go to real estate open houses (you know, check out our options in case either of us decides we can afford to buy a house, and check out our options)
  • Volunteer somewhere
  • Cook/bake together (i.e. I will take any excuse to eat chocolate chip cookie dough)
  • Have postcard writing nights to help us to be better long distance friends (I think this one is my favourite)
  • Go to the library (I am a book worm!)
  • Buy a cheap secondhand guitar and learn how to play it
  • Use my new Wii Fit twice a week

This is where you come in – I am looking for your suggestions! I am not necessarily looking to take up a new hobby (i.e. Erica – don’t suggest knitting) but what do YOU like to do with your partner and/or best friend that could be included on my list? I appreciate your recommendations! THANK YOU!

Also – One little comment I left awhile ago really paid off! You must check THIS awesomeness out. If you want, skip to the 1:20 mark to see the goodness.

Cheerleading Nationals!

This weekend my cheerleading team made the 5 hour (school) bus ride from Ottawa to Brampton to compete in the University and Open National Cheerleading Championships! We didn’t do as well as we’d hoped, but we still had lots of fun! Definitely something to work on for next year though! Again, I had the largest entourage there.

Three other blondes came (Erica, Micaela and Katelyn, obviously not Leah), two aunts, one friend, one dad, and one OPA! That’s right, Opa came to a cheerleading competition! Mom wished she could come, but at the last minute had to drop out because she remembered she promised a friend she would help with a murder mystery that night. It’s alright mom, you can look at the pictures and relive it that way. Speaking of pictures, here are some taken by Katelyn and me from the competition!

Me!

Me!

4/5 of the fiveblondes

4/5 of the fiveblondes

Opa and I

Opa and I

The Western Mustangs. They were AMAZING, and got first!

The Western Mustangs. They were AMAZING, and got first!

This is my stunt group.  I love them!

This is my stunt group- Me, Erinn, Elisa and Rachel. I love them!

One of our stunts- high heel

One of our stunts- high heel

Hope- one of the girls friend was there too! Shes on the Black Falcons, which is the cheerleading team from Fanshawe College in London

Hope- one of the girls friend was there too- shes on the right. Shes on the Black Falcons, which is the cheerleading team from Fanshawe College in London

We have two coaches.  This is Gareth.

We have two coaches. This is me and Gareth on the way to the after party.

This is Ashley.  I don't have a picture of us together, but she just recently learned how to fit her whole fist in her mouth.

This is Ashley. I don't have any pictures of us together, but she just recently learned how to fit her whole fist in her mouth and is very proud.

The after party was soo much fun. It was basically all the teams at one bar. Ridiculous, but fun! Has anyone ever been to one of these competitions? Or competed in cheerleading?

Birthdays, vacations, straight A's, weddings, girl crushes, and other things that make life worth living.

I am so excited about my life right now. For many reasons:

1) It’s my birthday this weekend! And it’s on a Saturday! And I know that I’m getting to an age where this isn’t necessarily something to look forward to, but honestly, I’ve never had a bad birthday. They’ve all been quite fabulous. One of my best friends, Michelle, and I have birthdays in the same week and we always go out and celebrate together and it’s always so much fun. So far we have 21 people confirmed for our joint birthday party. We are going to a comedy club first then out to a bar, which is kind of random but I went to a comedy club once a couple years ago wth Kent and it was SO much fun. Leah told me that she went to one last night, funny enough, and had a really great time. So now I am even more satisfied with my decision because I had been meaning to ask for her advice on the matter. Three of my five blonde sisters are coming along, Erica, Katelyn and Lauren (as long as she can get her booty back from Toronto in time). Should be a great time!

2) I booked my flight to Calgary to visit Leah and Tim in February! I called Kent to tell him that I was booking it, for some reason I felt the need to tell him before I did it and it’s a good thing I did because our conversation went a little like this:

Micaela: So I’m booking my flight to Calgary tonight!

Kent: You never told me you were going to Calgary. We’re getting married, shouldn’t we talk about things like cross country vacations?

Micaela: I didn’t? Sorry… I’m going the first week of February. I found a really cheap flight!

Kent: I’ll come, Book me a flight too.

Me: YOU WILL!?!?!??!?!?!

Apparently our communication skills need some work, but now I’m even more excited to go because not only do I get to see my long lost sister and her long lost boyfriend, I actually get to spend a whole week with Kent which is unheard of. We don’t get to spend much time together at all right now since I moved three hours away and he has a nutso work schedule. Our friends Laura and Matt are going too which we are very excited about because they are lots of fun and fellow skiers/snowboarders so we can hit up the mountains with them.

I was talking on the phone with Leah today about the trip plans and life in general and she said that she is really excited for me to meet her friend Natalie. She said:

Leah: I told her you were just like me but more fun.

Micaela: I am definitely not more fun than you.

Leah: Well… I guess it’s true that I’m more likely to get drunk on work nights than you are.

3) School is definitely agreeing with me right now. I’ve gotten lots of assignments and tests back so far this year and the lowest mark I’ve gotten so far was an A-. I was feeling kind of lazy and unmotivated here for the first while but now that I have lots of assignments due and readings to do I’ve kind of found my groove. I dragged Jen to the library to study on Sunday because at Laurier the library was the place I studied best, and we spent a few hours there it was wonderful and I’m addicted to it.

4) Barack Obama won! Amazing, I tell ya. I am very excited for my neighbours in America and to see what will happen next. And I mean my neighbours in a very literal sense, because I can see the bridge to Detroit from my house. I think my roommates and I are going shopping in the States on Black Friday, so we will celebrate Barack’s win by spreading some of our (sad, student) wealth with America’s (equally sad) economy.

5) I am getting so many great ideas for the wedding and an amaaaazing idea (okay, it’s stolen but still) idea for Save the Date cards… there is still TONS we need to do but really, it can’t start until after this Sunday when we are meeting with the priest to talk to him and finalize a date. At 10am the morning after my birthday. Should be a good time…

6) My favourite girl on America’s Next Top Model, Analeigh, is doing pretty good! I think she has a really good shot at winning. I watched the show with my roommates tonight and I decided that she is the prettiest girl in the world. Her style is WORLDS better than anyone else on the show. Their styles just don’t seem to make sense or suit their personalities while Analeigh’s seems to suit her perfectly. She is just super sweet, and apparently my new girl crush. Even Nigel agrees with me, I can tell he loves her.

Everyone has a girl crush. So do you. Admit it!

So here’s my question for this blog post: Who is your girl crush of the moment? Or, If you are a boy, who is your boy crush?

Sooo… spill!

Thoughts on a Monday Night

My Monday wasn’t too bad:

- I found out that a second kitten is moving into my student house, it belongs to one of my roommates and that means one more kitten that I don’t have to feed, clean up after, or get shots for, or do anything for but play with and cuddle with. I love coming home after classes to a kitten standing at the door just waiting for some love. And how can you not love this:

- I got to Science class and my prof asked me to come speak with him… I was expecting the worst, of course, but what he said was “Your lesson plan was really good, I photocopied one for everyone in the class, would you mind if I hand one out to everyone?” Ummm nope! Definitely a good self esteem boost, school wise!

- We got that much closer to setting a wedding date… we want to do it at a church that is not our home church so it’s that much more complicated. Soon, though!

- I made a sweeeeet dinner for my roommate Jen and I for when she came home from class starving at 6:00.

- I got a job tutoring a gr. 10 boy in English!

- Had a good phone chat with Kent… well until he told me that he can’t come visit this weekend! Since I started school we’ve managed to still see each other every weekend and of course the whole three weeks that I was off when my school went on strike. It’s his sister’s birthday though so I can’t fault him for that. I guess I would like to have a fiance who thinks his sister’s birthday is an important event. Plus he did take not only my birthday off but the WEEK OF my birthday since he needed to use up some vacation time. We can’t go away since I’m in school but he is going to come vacation at my student house in Windsor… doesn’t get much more luxurious than that! So to everyone who is my friend in real life – November 8! We’re going out in London and it’s a Saturday… birthday’s on Saturdays are extremely important events. The last time my birthday was on a Saturday I was 20 and I got pushed home in a shopping cart.

- My Oma had her hip replacement surgery and she is doing well!

- And always the best part of Mondays: remembering all the fun you had on the weekend! I went with Katelyn, her husband Scott, and a bunch of friends to a Halloween dance in a town near ours – one weekend early but that just means drawing out the fun even longer. This Friday my roommates and I are having a Halloween party of our own.

Here are some pictures of the fun last weekend:

I was a horseback rider and that’s my horse, Sheila. It was impossible for anyone to come near me without kissing it, kicking it, riding on it, feeding drinks to it, or… performing various inappropriate activities with/to it. That’s my friend Rebecca kissing it here.

Jen as a corpse bride, me, Michelle as Little Red Riding Hood, and Rebecca as a black angel.

Katelyn and Scott as Minnie and Mickey Mouse.

Some great friends of ours looking a little shocked… costumes are pretty self explanatory!

Everyone wanted to ride poor Sheila…

Jen’s boyfriend Andrew won Best Male Costume with his “fat plumber” suit!

And two of your five favourite blondes, riding the horse together. I just noticed the guy’s shirt behind us, please ignore it. :)