Lately I seem to love creating random rules for myself and then seeing if I can follow them. In the last couple months I made up a freakishly long Lent to do list that I had to finish before Easter (a success, besides the major case of OCD it gave me) and am quitting the internet for awhile. Which is seriously refreshing. My way of life must be catching, because Kent is now doing it for himself too. He’s giving up a few things this month and I made him a calendar where he gets a smiley face sticker every day he succeeds (which he informed me will be every day.) Every night he says to me, “Somebody deserves a sticker!” and I have to put one on for him.
This month, we’ve also decided to budget. On the first day of the month we took out a certain amount of money that we think we can live off of for the month, and that’s what we have for the month for everything besides all of our bills. It includes groceries, subway tokens, gas, and all of those extra things that always add up like crazy. We can’t use any credit cards or debit cards whatsoever. It will be interesting to see if we can do it or not… although the amount we gave ourselves is definitely not sustainable because it doesn’t leave us room for very many extra, fun things that cost money. Next month we’ll have to take that into account.
In a way this feels like a game more than anything (but a game that we take seriously!) We aren’t anything like the couples on Til Debt Do Us Part who are ridiculously in debt with huge spending addictions, and if we fail we will not be out on the streets. Which is good, really, because the jar system they use on that show would confuse the heck out of me. I think it’s just a good way for us to learn to manage our money as a team and think about each other and our long term goals first and foremost and save as much as we can. Neither of us have bad spending habits in the first place, really.
Do you budget, either as an individual or as a couple? If so let me know what your plan is. And if you feel like answering this, how much would you give yourself to spend per month if you were using our system?



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