Thanks for your questions everyone! If any of these posts spark more inquiries, keep asking in the Questions post and we will do our best to answer them. We will be breaking them up in to a few posts, so here are the first two questions and our answers (in order from oldest to youngest). I hope you can get to know us all a little bit better!
1. Are there any plans for a sister or brother for Hailey any time soon? -Anonymous
People are always very interested in knowing the answer to this question (why is everyone so nosy?). First I will ask a question back at the person who wrote the question- why are you anonymous? I’m more likely to tell someone that I know my future life plans, rather then a perfect stranger.
I’ve never really been secretive about the fact that I want my children fairly close together. I loved growing up and having sisters close to my age. We have plans for a brother or sister for Hailey but are not sure of the timeline yet, I definitely want to go back to work for a bit first.
2. Do you all want kids? have you always wanted them? and will you want to have a big family like the one you grew up in or just 1 or 2? -From Jamie
Erica says-: Yes, I want kids! Growing up I imagined myself with children in my early twenties, but based on current life plans I’ll be at least 29 by the time I have our first.
Note that I say first – although I don’t think five is a reasonable number for us, I would say that three is a possibility. Denis is from a small family (two boys) and is a little intimidated if numbers drift above that!
Micaela says: I have always wanted two boys and two girls so that I could experience having each and so that each of my kids could have at least a brother and a sister (of course in this plan they’d all get along perfectly too…) Mostly I wanted my boys to have a brother and my girls to have a sister since I always loved having sisters. Kent wants three kids and I imagine that’s how many we’ll have because three sounds okay to me too, and my plan involves a lot of wishful thinking.
Katelyn says: I love having lots of sisters, and have always wanted a nice big and fun family. Big meaning four (possssssibly five if Scott gets his way), which didn’t used to be a big family, but these days two kids seems to be the norm. I am drawn to having an even number of kids, probably because I was a middle child and hated it so much. I feel like if you have an even number each kid has a friend, having a odd number causes someone to feel left out (even if they are not actually are, they feel like they are).
Leah says: I will definitely have children and for me it was never a question of whether or not I would have them – I have always planned on having a family. It won’t be happening anytime soon as I’d like to do it in the traditional order – get engaged, then married, buy a house then fill it with babies (preferably with my main man, Tim). I love, love, loved growing up in a big family and would like to have a large(r) family myself – I’d like to have at least three or four. And of course I have all of the names picked out already!
Lauren says: I have always loved being in a big family. I love how there is always someone to talk to or hang out with, and always at least one person who wants to do what you want to do. I’m with Kate on the even number of kids thing. I think one would be lonely, and with three, two might gang up on one. Although the end choice would definitely have to be thought out when I’m actually in a relationship or married, I think that four would be a good number. Obviously, same as Leah, I have the names picked out. I have about 10 names picked out actually. I had to take one off once because Mic wanted it!
So there you have it folks! If we all get our way there could be 19 kids between the five of us – holy smokes. Moral of the story: we loved growing up in a big family and want to pass on the same opportunity to our children.
How about you – did you guys grow up in a big family or a small family? Which would you prefer?














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